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Bernie sadly passed away Sunday Oct. 4, 2026 surrounded by his loved ones.
Bernie lived a life full of challenges which made his journey not an easy one.
There were many chapters in his life that brought many struggles and pain.
He endured it all. He often pushed himself aside to help those he loved when they
needed him. Bernie might have had a hard exterior but those who knew him will remember
that beneath it all he was a good, kind, and caring person. A person who tried his best, a person
who showed compassion and generosity even when life was not always generous to him.
And let's not forget he was an avid Eagles fan, and he was a big Trekkie.
"Live long and prosper" Big Brother
Bernie was predeceased by his parents Bernard J. Maher and Babbetta M. (Lewis) Aiello
He is also survived by his sisters:
Colleen Maher-Fanelli (Joe) Exton, PA
Catherine Devine Wilmington, DE
Beth Davis (Scott) Dover, DE
Patti Fox Wilmington, DE
And a half sister
Kimberly Maher Cherryville, NC
He is also survived by his nieces and nephews:
Johnny Devine Dover, DE
Ashleigh Paslay (Dan) Claymont, DE
Joleen Fanelli Exton, DE
Fallon Fanelli West Chester, PA
Stephen Maher Lincolnton, NC
Michael Donovan III Wilmington, DE
Connor Davis Evertte, MA
Kiera Davis Dover, DE
And his great niece and great nephew
May Bernie now know the peace and gentleness that life did not always give him.
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